#QuoteOfTheDay
"Find someone who isn't afraid to admit that they miss you. Someone who knows that you're not perfect, but treats you as if you are. Someone whose biggest fear is losing you. One who gives their heart completely. Someone who says I love you and means it. Last but not the least, find someone you wouldn't mind waking up with you in the morning, seeing your wrinkles and your gray hair but still falls in love with you all over again."
- Anonymous
"So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s gonna be really hard. We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day…"
This time, the video is Paperman, a short animation made by Walt Disney Animation Studios and it was originally released via the extras on the Wreck-It Ralph (Two-Disc Blu-ray/DVD Combo)
Enjoy
Expect to see a great new video related to the topics talked on the blog every week. :)
Today we have a list of 17 important tips to keep in mind and love to take on a partner, a boyfriend, get a date, improve your relationship and everything you need to develop yourself happily in this vast and changing world of love.
1. Look carefully at who you are with even when you think you have everything secured in your relationship. People are often not fully transparent and you need to make it work, you need to make the relationship to have a lot of mutual trust to know every aspect of the other person.
2. A well-placed pair of glasses can see a person in love, which is not the best option.
3. A man / woman can not fill the void you have in your life. It complements it, but does not fill the total loss of your life, keep that in mind when thinking about a couple that solves everything.
4. If a person tells you he does not want or is not ready for a relationship with you, NEVER insist. Take that out of your head, until that person asks you. Do not dwell on this aspect as it rarely ends in a good way. Convincing the other, does not work in this aspect.
5. Do not confuse your career with your partner, in the case of sharing the workplace or chosen career.
6. It is not always the best to only see what man tells, sometimes their actions speak for themselves and say things that his words could not. For better or for worse.
7. A person who is not looking for you, it's because he's not interested. A good way to call his/her attention is to always being ourselves. Beware of pushing someone to care for you by force since that will make the other person to lose all the interest he/she had.
8. Love is always a risk. If you win, you got more, if you lose, you get less than when you started. It always is and will be, but these things make the life interesting.
9. The person who loves and is happy doing it, no one can prove him wrong. Do not try to move his attention, because the person may stop talking to you than to stop talking to the other person. Just limit yourself and try not to persuade or force the other person.
10. Do not forget yourself, by having a partner. Dress up, get out, dress as you like. Remember it is a partner, not a slave or duty. Who loved you as you were, surely will love you always.
11. A man who says "I love you", along with daily attention and listen to what you say, is a man in truly in love.
12. The love by necessity, it is not love.
13. The distance or intermittent cohabitation has 2 possible great effects. The strengthening of the relationship and consolidating it or destroy it completely. You will never be "fine" in a rare interaction relationship.
14. The man does not know what you have in mind as a woman. Do not try to make him guess, he will not do it.
15. If a woman tells you she's angry, it's because she is. If she says everything is all right ... possibly she's angry.
16. The man is simple, women are complex. No one is better or worse, but either side has advantages in different aspects.
17. In love there are only 2 main things: The body and speech. - Joyce Carol Oates
To start this list of six tips to find love, there is a rather popular phrase of Friedrich Nietzsche that reads:
1. "A pair of powerful lenses has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." - Friedrich Nietzsche
What does this mean?, this means you always have to pay attention and know the person from whom one is in love not to fall into the classic "love vision" that everything is perfect with no defects.
2. Not only expect another man or woman to fill the void in your life. Only you can do that.
It is a common mistake that you need to avoid.
3. If a person says he is not ready to be in a relationship, it is because they really are not ready. Do not get involved with her/him waiting for her/him to change his mind.
Do not press the other person, it's not going to make a change of opinion.
4. "If you want to heal and save people, study medicine or nursing."-Anonymous
Do not try to "cure" your partner, only he / she can do that.
5. Do not listen to what the other person says, pay attention to what he does.
Actions have more weight than what someone says, do not feel attracted to someone who always says the right things, fall in love with someone who does always de right things.
6. A person who does not seek is not interested. Who really wants it, wants it.
If you do everything and just do not manage to capture the interest of the other person, it is more likely that the other person really isn't looking for something or it is not interested in something.
That would conclude our list of six tips to find love, if after this list you find someone and you're not sure on what to do before a first date, read our previous post where we talked about that topic.
In our previous publication of tips to get through a breakup, we talked about some tips to overcome this situation, but the reality is that it is not a simple process so even following all those steps you will feel like those were not enough, which is why we provide even more ideas for it in the hope that they can help you overcome this terrible situation.
1. Escape the routine
Often depression is given by a monotony in our lives. It is the way our body strikes us saying "hey, you're worth more than that, I want you to get your hopes up again doing something." At first everything is nice, we are excited about our home, our work and our new partner, but as time goes by the illusions are fading. We feel so eager to get home and see our partner. We do not feel that hope to complete the project to our boss ...
Our body begins to feel a lack of positive emotions and positive melancholy, dreams ... and a way for segregating these substances or motivate us to segregate is depression.
All you have to do is live new sensations and that this will be done with a small change in your life. A job change, hobbies change, something new to do after work, a new hobby. What comes to mind just to vary your daily routine, this creative aspect everything you can and see how you are varying your routine happier.
2. Find yourself a meditation exercise
This is the best advice I can give. This is something you do and you do it while your mind wanders off and freely. You are minding your own business, restructure your mind.
Your mind is like a misshapen ball, every time you start to meditate packages are flattening and making it round and perfect. In short, you are ordering your ideas, relaxing ... In short, if you want, meditation certainly has very positive effects on health.
Although my methods of meditation cost me money, love and help me a lot. I am someone very hyper, which I hate the games like chess and sit still. What I do to meditate is to take my car and spin. While I never pass 80km / h, I play the music that I love to stop and start driving aimlessly. My mind relaxes and I start talking to myself talk.
This relaxes me a lot and if I'm depressed let me happier than a lark. Another thing I do is go to the movies. Simply because I love cinema can leave your life, everything you're by 1:30 (or more) and delve into a new world of fantasy where you are the spectator of great stories.
Why I recommend both films. Very relaxing and relieves depression.
3. Combat melancholy
Many times we feel depressed because we have melancholy. If you have the chance estáte with that melancholy which gives you until you sick. For example, if you miss your parents, ask your work holidays and go 20 days with them. Heading over with them at all times, in the end probably end tired and melancholy will go for a good season.
It will remind you to be with your parents was not so wonderful. So well kill two birds with one stone as they escape from your daily routine.
4. Get yourself a hobby you're passionate about
This is perhaps the best exercise for depression.
Find yourself doing something you're passionate about, that you like. If my case is writing yours may be something like collecting stamps, clocks, programming, writing ... Find your place in the world, and not just have to have a hobby, but keep that reaching your goal, peaking in your hobby.
If you try tennis you can go as professional tennis. A hobby is a very good anti-depressant, so stop complaining and look for one you're passionate about (I did not say that you like, but you're passionate about)
5. Set yourself goals and go for them
Having goals in mind distracts and prevents the depression becomes a part of that gives much more meaning to your life. If the games do not have objectives would be meaningless if companies not be marked targets would not be businesses. And you, as a person, should mark you that if you do not have goals you are not person.
Márcatelos either in your hobby, your job ... but be something to fight every day, that something that makes you get up wanting to experience the world.
6. Get addicted to a TV series
Something that I loved it and made me very happy was seeing series like The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, That 70's Show, etc. looking forward to each chapter. Such are the things that make you feel like dying you get ... a certain day.
Fortunately a television series clears your mind and makes you more happy and content.
#QuoteOfTheDay
When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is!
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