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20 tips to forget a loved one


20 tips to forget a loved one

1. Realize that you are no longer in his/her life. You must accept that your "thing" is over and that so far things are that way. 

2. Remember all the bad moments you had while being at his/her side, do not idealize him, look at the person as he/she really is and the bad things he/she has done to you.

3. It's easier to remember the nice things, but record in your mind the lies he/she has told you and you will see him/her with different eyes. 

4. Make memory of how low he/she  has fallen to his deceptions. 

5. Remember how bad he/she smelled at times (it will give you more strength). 

6. How he/she didn't remember your birthday or anniversary or another special date, it's a disaster! 

7. How he/she calls you only when he/she wants; and when he/she says he/she will, does not. 

8. He/she is a problem in your life and evil must be removed to keep going. 

9. Make a cleanup in your life, like when you clean the cabinets what works stays the rest we give away. 

10. The heart needs to be free and healthy, so you can receive the good things that life has in store. 

11. See how your relationship made you lost time, look at it as life experiences, not as something to remember. 

12. Be the best for you and others, it does't matter if the others are not for you. 

13. Do not say you have a problem that you can not solve, you are stronger than that.

14. Fill your life with things that benefit you, go to the gym, beauty salon, and get pretty (you deserve it). Read 15 books you never thought you'd read, use your hands to create things, knitting, painting, etc. 

16. Call your friend who you have lost contact for quite a long time and invite her to go with you for a coffee and remember your beautiful moments. 

17. Call your mother and tell her you will pick her up to go to the mall and look showcases. 

18. Never you stay waiting for a call (He/she will not call). 

19. Cry if you need it, wipe off the tears and start again... The tears are there to erase pain. 

20. And do not avoid talking about it, the more you let your feelings flow it will be easier. Think of it as a movie that happens and goes up to the end. 

It seems that all these tips were unnecessary, right?

You should try to make some changes in your life and see that slowly your life will change. What once you thought it could never happen, is happening now ... and now you're prettier, more worried about you.

Think about it.

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Ten tips to overcome a breakup (2nd part)


In our previous publication of tips to get through a breakup, we talked about some tips to overcome this situation, but the reality is that it is not a simple process so even following all those steps you will feel like those were not enough, which is why we provide even more ideas for it in the hope that they can help you overcome this terrible situation.

1. Escape the routine

Often depression is given by a monotony in our lives. It is the way our body strikes us saying "hey, you're worth more than that, I want you to get your hopes up again doing something." At first everything is nice, we are excited about our home, our work and our new partner, but as time goes by the illusions are fading. We feel so eager to get home and see our partner. We do not feel that hope to complete the project to our boss ...

Our body begins to feel a lack of positive emotions and positive melancholy, dreams ... and a way for segregating these substances or motivate us to segregate is depression.

All you have to do is live new sensations and that this will be done with a small change in your life. A job change, hobbies change, something new to do after work, a new hobby. What comes to mind just to vary your daily routine, this creative aspect everything you can and see how you are varying your routine happier.

2. Find yourself a meditation exercise

This is the best advice I can give. This is something you do and you do it while your mind wanders off and freely. You are minding your own business, restructure your mind.

Your mind is like a misshapen ball, every time you start to meditate packages are flattening and making it round and perfect. In short, you are ordering your ideas, relaxing ... In short, if you want, meditation certainly has very positive effects on health.

Although my methods of meditation cost me money, love and help me a lot. I am someone very hyper, which I hate the games like chess and sit still. What I do to meditate is to take my car and spin. While I never pass 80km / h, I play the music that I love to stop and start driving aimlessly. My mind relaxes and I start talking to myself talk.

This relaxes me a lot and if I'm depressed let me happier than a lark. Another thing I do is go to the movies. Simply because I love cinema can leave your life, everything you're by 1:30 (or more) and delve into a new world of fantasy where you are the spectator of great stories.

Why I recommend both films. Very relaxing and relieves depression.

3. Combat melancholy

Many times we feel depressed because we have melancholy. If you have the chance estáte with that melancholy which gives you until you sick. For example, if you miss your parents, ask your work holidays and go 20 days with them. Heading over with them at all times, in the end probably end tired and melancholy will go for a good season.

It will remind you to be with your parents was not so wonderful. So well kill two birds with one stone as they escape from your daily routine.

4. Get yourself a hobby you're passionate about

This is perhaps the best exercise for depression.

Find yourself doing something you're passionate about, that you like. If my case is writing yours may be something like collecting stamps, clocks, programming, writing ... Find your place in the world, and not just have to have a hobby, but keep that reaching your goal, peaking in your hobby.

If you try tennis you can go as professional tennis. A hobby is a very good anti-depressant, so stop complaining and look for one you're passionate about (I did not say that you like, but you're passionate about)

5. Set yourself goals and go for them

Having goals in mind distracts and prevents the depression becomes a part of that gives much more meaning to your life. If the games do not have objectives would be meaningless if companies not be marked targets would not be businesses. And you, as a person, should mark you that if you do not have goals you are not person.

Márcatelos either in your hobby, your job ... but be something to fight every day, that something that makes you get up wanting to experience the world.

6. Get addicted to a TV series

Something that I loved it and made me very happy was seeing series like The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, That 70's Show, etc. looking forward to each chapter. Such are the things that make you feel like dying you get ... a certain day.

Fortunately a television series clears your mind and makes you more happy and content.

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Ten tips to overcome a breakup



Everyone who loves with all her heart, at some point in their lives have spent a heartbreak in which councils need to overcome a break, and that is very painful when you give all of you in this relationship. All who know the pain this happened, I urge those who pass by this time they should not always blame other people, you have perhaps also partly to blame for this.

I want to share with you ten tips to get through a breakup:

1. Change your attitude to this problem, thought part of the process of your life, and that is learning that all change is for the better.
2. If you want to overcome that moment you must delete that person from contact (social networks, messenger, etc)
3. Change your phone number, so just avoid the temptation to answer calls that remind you of that person.
4. Removes all memory you have of that person, letters, photos, gifts, etc.
5. It's time to go out and have fun, looking for real friends and begin again to live life, not worth it to drown yourself a glass of sadness when you have a whole ocean of opportunities in front of you.
6.Write something to vent everything you feel on a sheet, read it three times and then ... trash it.
7. Avoid alcohol at all costs, not at all good, the only thing that will bring you is that it will shorten your life.
8. Meet new people, relate more with your friends, go to parties, public places, etc. It is a great opportunity to tell the world ... I'm here !!!! .
9. Never closure chances to love and to be happy. Remember ... not all people are equal.
10. The world is not over.. do not keep shedding tears for those who do not need, that other person is having fun while you cry. So lift up your mood and go out to conquer the world. 
I hope these tips will be helpful when a relationship comes to an end, especially for young people who are going through the infatuation stage and believe that the world will fall before a break with her ​​boyfriend (a).

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