How to know if you found the right person

You need to answer this seven questions first:

1. Does he or she treats you like a unique and valuable person or not?

It may be that he/she considers you a possession or he/she may not be that reliable for such an important position in your life, that person might make you feel unimportant, being with another person is a matter of choice, you and your partner both need to feel that, both need to still want to be together by choice, not by obligation.

2. How is your emotional past?

When a person has left behind a trail of broken hearts, children with different people, several broken marriages; or when you are at war with their former partners, it is important that you find out what really happened and to talk to him or her and observe their behavior to know if you have solved their conflicts or you will be the next victim of the list.

3. Would I like to be this person?

Maybe you've never asked this yourself, but let your imagination flow. Pretend you're him or her and behave, think, get dressed and drive you through life his/her way. Do you feel comfortable or is there something that makes you uncomfortable or squeaks? Listen to your instinct.

4. Would I like to have children with him or her?

It is not that you necessarily have to have them, but to decide if you could see him as a mother or father of your children. Because if you are, or you're seriously thinking about having children you should be searching for the really important features of the future parent of your children, leaving out the superfluous.

5. Would I want my kids to be like him or her?

Like the above, this gives you very revealing answers. A resounding "yes" is about love and respect you have for that person.

6. Would you want to spend the rest of my life with him if you knew that he/she will never change?

Let your imagination fly again. We all change and evolve, but here is whether he or she will love it so much that now you feel you never get tired of their way of being. Or, on the contrary, the thought may make you feel sick

7. Would you like, however, to change certain things before planning to spend the rest of you life with him/her?

Be very honest when answering this question. There are differences that do not matter and others that are decisive. Then if he or she tells you not to have children or live, and you're craving, try not fool yourself thinking that you do and change my mind.