Don't Do These 5 Mistakes When Going On A First Date

It is always important to have relevant information before a first date so to accidentally commit one of those called "rookie mistakes" in this list manage five points I think are important:

• It's a date, not a school exam, much less a job interview, it is a special opportunity to spend some quality time getting to know another person, it is a good time you have to be both fun and enjoyable for both parties. So do not impose expectations or insist on forcing a "magic" moment imposing your illusions of love into the other person, can it fail ?, the answer is that even in the worst case scenario, undoubtedly a date will become a good story to share with friends and/or relatives which will make you to have a little fun.

• Be yourself, a common mistake is to pretend to be a person who you are not, or pretending to be a lot more interesting than you really are,  the truth is that someone notices and ends that will be an easy way to bore the other person. Dress attractive but not so much, you don't need to be too formal as to make the other person inconfortable, remember that the central point of the date is to present who you really are and make some really good memories out of that date.

• Do not talk about your past relationships, may seem obvious, but it's a very common mistake, people often tend to discuss details of their ex-partners, especially if the ex-couple is the one that cut off the relationship, because apart from being the last thing you want to hear from a person who just wants to start a new relationship, if you do that, most likely the other person will only begin to doubt you and think of reasons why he or she could have broken up with you.

• Leave your troubles at home if there is a bigger mistake than speaking of your ex is talking about problems elsewhere like problems with office mates, economic problems, complaints, criticisms and prejudices, all should ideally be outside of this conversations. The best thing you can do is to really care about the life of the other person, ask questions and listen. That's the real secret to convert the date into something extra special.

• Behave naturally The ideal of most people is to find someone who will accept them as they are, so it is more than ideal you behave the way you are, do not pretend to be better than you think you are, do not try to impress the other person like if he/she were a prospective client that you want him/her to visit your business. Be spontaneous, talk about your tastes, something that usually helps is to imagine that the other person is your best friend or a friend that you haven't seen in a long time, that will make it easier to talk and be comfortable during the date.